I'm tired of waiting and I obviously need my hand held through the process because I simply don't get it. Give it to me step by step. How do I lose my virginity.

First, a few things about me:
>19 (will be 20 in less than 2 months)
>sophomore in university
>working toward an engineering degree
>5'10"
>slightly underweight
>black
>5-6/10 face
>virgin (obviously)
>never had a female friend

Is there any hope for someone like me?