>>4665852he needs to have a toned body (can't be a bodybuilder or too buff), a cute face (no big noses i'm a bit traumatized from those to be honest) with big eyes (or at least normal sized), just give him a proportionate face. also small lips (but big lips are fine too if it's not negro tier)
a thin neck is a big big plus if not mandatory (but not a stick, just again not a bodybuilder)
a naturally narrow frame but with big muscles that make him wider than me
paler is better but i can settle with someone darker as long as he's not hairy
not bigfoot feet
if i think of anything else i'll let you know