is it ok not to enjoy making out? I fantasy a lot about blowjob, so I don't think my problem is with the sex itself. but I always feel like the other person is enjoying the situation more than I am, and I feel an instant urge to end it before they notice. I usually like it at first, even more when they're pushy, but all the sudden I feel unwilling to keep it up. has anyone else ever been in this spot?