>>4821274Both your issues are a problem to you only because you weren't prepared
Is your grandma the first relative that passed away?
Don't be a pussy about that, it's only sad when you say the final goodbye, it's a coldhearted thing to say but you won't care after a few weeks and your life wouldn't change much. The grandma is fine in the other world and you would be fine as well
The gf thing is different, first of all make sure that she really cheated. You might be memed on.
Ok I'll assume that you're 100% sure now, well, it's actually good news, you got rid of a girl that didn't even love you.
You have really low self esteem. That's why you are sad right now, because you think that getting a gf was a hard thing. That's why you gave her everything, because you were scared of her leaving.
I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this: but the reason she left was exactly because you gave her everything. Girls hate that in men and you probably appeared clingy, unmanly and desperate because of it. In fact if you regularly gave her material gifts or payed for her in restaurants she probably stopped loving you a long time ago and was just sticking around to get free shit from you
Here's advice for your future relationships
DON'T give them everything, be moderate.
Be prepared from the first day that the gf might leave at any moment. You will literally not give a shit once and if she actually leaves.
btw, since we're at it tell us more about the relationship you had if you have time
