>>5131821No woman will tell you this directly unfortunately. They'll claim to want a sensitive man, but don't you fucking believe it.
I'm 40, 3 kids, married for 13 years. One thing everyone will quickly lean is that women will subconsciously test you with their bullshit. If you let em get away w too much, they WILL lose all respect for you.
That doesn't mean being a total asshole & abuser, but not a pussy either. Early in the marriage I was kinda timid in this way, but the last couple years been bossing her around a bit more. One because her ideas are mostly not thought out & are dumb, and two because I fucking said so.
I even learned maybe a year ago she text flirted with some work friend in another state (they only met once in public). I looked the guy up & he had a police record (was a nigger, shocking). I fucking tore her a new asshole. She tried to say some shit about the reason was she was sure I was gonna divorce her (trying to use me as an excuse for it) & I didn't hit her, but sorta stood over her & mashed her face with my hand then pushed her back on her ass. We fucked like animals that night & made her cum buckets like 4 times.
They love that shit. Don't let them ever tell you they don't. Just pick your times.