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Anonymous ID:adT3owhZ Tue 15 May 2018 23:37:18 No.5139100 View View Reply Original Report

I want a relationship but I also want to be single and to focus on myself without being tied down... Can anyone kinda give me advice please? I'm confused about these emotions.

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Anonymous ID:IvO+CBgy Tue 15 May 2018 23:37:59 No.5139105 Report

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Um... Get a gf but don't get too attached?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:clq8yRCZ Tue 15 May 2018 23:38:24 No.5139113 Report

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just dont get tied down looooooool

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Pqmg3BQ7 Tue 15 May 2018 23:38:41 No.5139116 Report

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>>>/r9k/

assnigger

assnigger ID:dsLRbWxe Tue 15 May 2018 23:38:50 No.5139118 Report

Quoted By: >>5139174

>>5139100
get a anime girlfriend then

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:fcDvn2UH Tue 15 May 2018 23:41:09 No.5139152 Report

Quoted By: >>5139188 >>5139219

You do realize that when you get in a relationship you will still be your own person, right?

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Anonymous ID:adT3owhZ Tue 15 May 2018 23:43:16 No.5139174 Report

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>>5139118
I have one but I crave physical intimacy as much as I fear it.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:nUmzgs6f Tue 15 May 2018 23:44:04 No.5139188 Report

Quoted By: >>5139239 >>5139244

>>5139152
after the "moneymoon" (anywhere from 3-6 months) women generally don't grant their man any degree of autonomy at all

my advice would be to date for no longer than 2 months so you don't get too attached and don't get exposed to many of her real flaws, and avoid falling "in love" with her during that period

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Anonymous ID:adT3owhZ Tue 15 May 2018 23:47:01 No.5139219 Report

Quoted By: >>5139239 >>5139245

>>5139152
I understand that but I guess I'm sorta scared that freedom will be taken away from me?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:fcDvn2UH Tue 15 May 2018 23:48:33 No.5139239 Report

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>>5139188
This isn't my experience at all.

>>5139219
Just explain like really early on that you want companionship but aren't sure if you'll be fully commited to the relationship for forever. Just treat it as a test and make sure she knows that it might not last.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:adT3owhZ Tue 15 May 2018 23:48:45 No.5139244 Report

Quoted By: >>5139274

>>5139188
I'll try that. Thanks leaf.

assnigger

assnigger ID:dsLRbWxe Tue 15 May 2018 23:48:47 No.5139245 Report

Quoted By: >>5139267

>>5139219
just fucknig do it you pussy

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Anonymous ID:adT3owhZ Tue 15 May 2018 23:50:31 No.5139267 Report

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>>5139245

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Anonymous ID:fcDvn2UH Tue 15 May 2018 23:51:00 No.5139274 Report

Quoted By: >>5139333

>>5139244
Don't take the leaf's advice, he's a retard who only deals with thots.

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Anonymous ID:5ybwanxe Tue 15 May 2018 23:51:20 No.5139279 Report

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>>5139100
we are some fragile creatures.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:adT3owhZ Tue 15 May 2018 23:54:51 No.5139333 Report

Quoted By: >>5139539

>>5139274
At this point I'm open to anything to be frank.. I do believe what you said will probably help me the best and described what I'm sorta feeling?

I do want companionship and someone to be around daily but after a while I get bored and wanna move on to try something else.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:IvO+CBgy Wed 16 May 2018 00:14:51 No.5139539 Report

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>>5139333
Dude. Okay real talk. It's easy to get hung up on a chick and fall in love, people aren't machines we can't always control this shit. Well then just fucking let it happen and see where it goes. If it really starts bugging after a while inevitably the annoying "we can't do this anymore" talk will come along. Then deal with it. It's the price you pay. It'll suck but on the flipside it's nothing special breakups happen dozens of times every week all over the world

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