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Bad idea? Anons will talk you out of it

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 00:09:58 No.5225622 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>5225703 >>5225706 >>5226981 >>5228572 >>5229710 >>5229776

ITT: we say our bad ideas and other anons talk us out of it.

Me: I'm going through a period of >tfw no gf and it's gotten to the point I'm considering trying to get back in touch with a girl I accidentally ghosted on years ago

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:U/PbmyOR Wed 23 May 2018 00:20:00 No.5225703 Report

Quoted By: >>5225723 >>5225897 >>5226793

>>5225622
don't do it, you are always better off starting fresh with women. a women who is still in the "honeymoon" part of the relationship is the ideal gf, when she is keeping her flaws and entitled bossy cunt nature in check, and it's usually downhill fast after that when she feels she has gotten you to fall in love with her (pussy)

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Anonymous ID:LpKdqNb8 Wed 23 May 2018 00:20:15 No.5225706 Report

Quoted By: >>5226695 >>5226728

>>5225622
I want go out from ma home.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:U/PbmyOR Wed 23 May 2018 00:21:18 No.5225723 Report

Quoted By: >>5225805 >>5226728

>>5225703
oh and my bad idea is I want to get into the legal weed biz somehow and get rich af

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:NDg2Bcw1 Wed 23 May 2018 00:23:08 No.5225805 Report

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>>5225723
you have nothing to offer that someone else is doing, also it will cost a lot of money.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 00:24:28 No.5225897 Report

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>>5225703
>fall in love with her (pussy)
This is why you don't have sex until you're married, folks.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:j4TIEYnB Wed 23 May 2018 00:27:34 No.5226695 Report

Quoted By: >>5226791

>>5225706
Don't do it. When you go outside you're vulnerable to diseases and other germs that can make you really sick.
It's better if you just stay inside and be safe.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 00:30:52 No.5226728 Report

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>>5225706
Going outside is a normie thing, Anon.

>>5225723
In the words of St. Vinyard, "Weed is for niggers"

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:CsfA3RKr Wed 23 May 2018 00:33:03 No.5226749 Report

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I'm considering NOT burning down a Quechan reservation today.

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Anonymous ID:LpKdqNb8 Wed 23 May 2018 00:37:32 No.5226791 Report

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>>5226695
Good advice i understood you.

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Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 00:37:46 No.5226793 Report

Quoted By: >>5226828

>>5225703
Let me give you some more backstory to better round out the kind of relationship I had with this girl.

>lived half a country away
>texted constantly
>occasional sexting because she had the sex drive of a 15 year old boy
>after months of this(a year or so) she makes a comment about being careful I don't fall in love with her
>tell her it's too late
>a couple weeks later she says we should be together
>tell her no because I always fuck things up and hurt people
>conversation goes nowhere
a few days pass
>she texts me
>ignore her because I don't know what to say about the being together thing
>life got real busy and before I know it 4 months went by without talking to her
ffwd to about this time last year
>send late night sleepy text telling her I'm sorry
>we talk a little but she's LARPing as not knowing who I am
>finally stops texting me and I say I get it and I'm sorry one last time
TEH END

It sucks too because she's the best friend I've ever had in life as well. Just going through a lonely spell I guess.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:hSbHcsHn Wed 23 May 2018 00:41:16 No.5226828 Report

Quoted By: >>5226870 >>5226889

>>5226793
I know the feel anon. We all go through dumb shit like this. You made the effort to reconnect but since she isn't interested at this point you can't do much else. You tried your best but she just doesn't seem to care anymore.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:LpKdqNb8 Wed 23 May 2018 00:44:56 No.5226870 Report

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>>5226828
Дa o чём тyт гoвopить, шлюхa oнa!

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 00:47:47 No.5226889 Report

Quoted By: >>5226907

>>5226828
>You tried your best
but I didn't really. I wasn't trying to reconnect, I just wanted to let her know I was sorry for ghosting on her. If I wanted to reconnect I would've done things slightly differently.

And at some point when I have my shit together I do plan on calling her just to talk to someone who knew me when, ya know? I have no one except family that knew back from that time in my life and it'd be nice to just have some kind of a reference point like that.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:hSbHcsHn Wed 23 May 2018 00:50:00 No.5226907 Report

Quoted By: >>5226951

>>5226889
You can try it anon, and I wish you luck, but more than likely it's all over.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:xW7wYo9Z Wed 23 May 2018 00:50:09 No.5226909 Report

Quoted By: >>5226951 >>5226965

I'm thinking of getting drunk and shitposting in waifu threads on /v/

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Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 00:55:55 No.5226951 Report

Quoted By: >>5226973 >>5227009

>>5226909
This is a BAD ideas thread, Anon. Unless you're an alcoholic, I can't see the bad idea here.

>>5226907
I'm sure it is, but I will say from my experience I have this way of getting back in with people. No matter how much I piss them off I'm always able to get back in there. Thanks, Anon.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:hSbHcsHn Wed 23 May 2018 00:58:01 No.5226965 Report

Quoted By: >>5227009

>>5226909
I endorse this. Shit post to your hearts content.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:hSbHcsHn Wed 23 May 2018 00:58:55 No.5226973 Report

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>>5226951
I wish you the best of luck, friend. Life is tough but you've got this.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:eotllWvH Wed 23 May 2018 00:59:30 No.5226981 Report

Quoted By: >>5226997

>>5225622
Anyone just desperately trying to escape unhealthy opinions or extremes? I'm not sure how to explain it properly, but an attempt not to get into the mindset of pure bullshit. Like /pol/tards become the way they are because they let those ideas corrupt them by spending so much time soaking it up like a sponge.

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Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 01:01:59 No.5226997 Report

Quoted By: >>5227024

>>5226981
>let those ideas corrupt
From what I've seen they'd describe it as cleansing themselves of corruption. I you don't want to become a /pol/ tier type, I can't say it's a bad idea. Those ideas seem to be getting more and more popular so it's logical to familiarize yourself with them.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:5KgbSLeB Wed 23 May 2018 01:02:57 No.5227003 Report

Quoted By: >>5227015

Currently in a hotel sitting on a balcony on the 7th floor. Kinda wanna jump. Can't tell if a good or bad idea.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:xW7wYo9Z Wed 23 May 2018 01:03:28 No.5227009 Report

Quoted By: >>5227022

>>5226951
>>5226965
Thank God there isn't a waifu thread on v right now

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 01:04:03 No.5227015 Report

Quoted By: >>5227033

>>5227003
Is it a "seems like it'd be fun" or a "Life sucks and I wanna die" kind of urge?

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Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 01:04:33 No.5227022 Report

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>>5227009
Go start one then. Maximum shitposting

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:eotllWvH Wed 23 May 2018 01:04:40 No.5227024 Report

Quoted By: >>5227029

>>5226997
Ideas are in themselves very abstract. They exist as clouds in the sky but they never condense. I've learned over the course of my life, the more you step into reality things tend to be a lot better. The higher you're up in the clouds it's harder to grasp what's below.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 01:05:10 No.5227029 Report

Quoted By: >>5227032

>>5227024
why not both?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:eotllWvH Wed 23 May 2018 01:05:59 No.5227032 Report

Quoted By: >>5227056

>>5227029
Why what? Expand on that thought.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:5KgbSLeB Wed 23 May 2018 01:06:00 No.5227033 Report

Quoted By: >>5227056

>>5227015
both honestly. i am afraid of heights though so i'd probably never do it like this.

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Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 01:09:23 No.5227056 Report

Quoted By: >>5227095 >>5228631

>>5227032
Why can't you be a man of thoughts and ideas that also walks about the living? Be a crypto normie

>>5227033
Well the "seems like fun" goes away when you realize the landing will not end well, as for this "life sucks" hang in there, brother. I'm may not know your problems, but I've been there and I've seen the light of dawn after you come out of it. It's something magical, you just have to work towards it.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:eotllWvH Wed 23 May 2018 01:14:48 No.5227095 Report

Quoted By: >>5227104

>>5227056
No. What I'm saying is that your thoughts should be influenced from a good look at reality, not a mere glance of it from the window of your room.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 01:16:33 No.5227104 Report

Quoted By: >>5227185

>>5227095
Ah yes, fair enough. I agree with you there. But I don't see what you're problem is then if that's already how you feel?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:eotllWvH Wed 23 May 2018 01:29:33 No.5227185 Report

Quoted By: >>5227198

>>5227104
The problem is just to stay balanced in the center.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 01:32:23 No.5227198 Report

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>>5227185
That just comes down to experimentation. See what works and what doesn't.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:b+W2SGlI Wed 23 May 2018 04:23:57 No.5228572 Report

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>>5225622
cool

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:zX6h2Hfi Wed 23 May 2018 04:28:29 No.5228622 Report

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Ok, here's my bad idea: going to sleep now despite having to do a ton of shit. talk me out of it.
also keep in mind that i've been up all night

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Anonymous ID:or1jl181 Wed 23 May 2018 04:30:06 No.5228631 Report

Quoted By: >>5233071

>>5227056
man, that vaporwave aesthetic went stale like milk

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Anonymous ID:CKc4v5BJ Wed 23 May 2018 08:06:20 No.5229702 Report

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Anonymous ID:CKc4v5BJ Wed 23 May 2018 08:06:54 No.5229706 Report

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Anonymous ID:j0YwhnFy Wed 23 May 2018 08:07:24 No.5229710 Report

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>>5225622
I want to eat a heathy meal!

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Anonymous ID:CKc4v5BJ Wed 23 May 2018 08:07:27 No.5229712 Report

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Anonymous ID:CKc4v5BJ Wed 23 May 2018 08:10:06 No.5229731 Report

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Anonymous ID:lCR5yyfx Wed 23 May 2018 08:10:51 No.5229737 Report

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Anonymous ID:CKc4v5BJ Wed 23 May 2018 08:11:09 No.5229739 Report

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Anonymous ID:CKc4v5BJ Wed 23 May 2018 08:11:26 No.5229741 Report

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Anonymous ID:gk19Tfce Wed 23 May 2018 08:19:28 No.5229776 Report

Quoted By: >>5233077

>>5225622
100% imp

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 14:45:07 No.5233071 Report

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>>5228631
every. single. time.

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Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 14:46:42 No.5233077 Report

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>>5229739
>>5229776
>tfw my thread gets called out for being foreign
I thought you guys were my friends.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:L9/hYczM Wed 23 May 2018 14:48:39 No.5233085 Report

Quoted By: >>5233088

I want to buy the new Stellaris DLC.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 14:49:29 No.5233088 Report

Quoted By: >>5233126

>>5233085
How poor are you?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:L9/hYczM Wed 23 May 2018 14:51:48 No.5233126 Report

Quoted By: >>5233204

>>5233088
I'm not poor, I just heard it was absolute shit and still want to buy it.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 14:54:25 No.5233204 Report

Quoted By: >>5233230

>>5233126
What was shitty about it? Glitchy or something or just dumb and a waste of money? How much is it?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:L9/hYczM Wed 23 May 2018 14:59:11 No.5233230 Report

Quoted By: >>5233277

>>5233204
>Glitchy or something or just dumb and a waste of money
Both.
About ten bucks.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 15:09:05 No.5233277 Report

Quoted By: >>5233376

>>5233230
the glitches will get patched, and for $10 I'd say fuck it and buy it. Gotta be a completionist with those Paradox games.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:L9/hYczM Wed 23 May 2018 15:28:34 No.5233376 Report

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>>5233277
Thanks mate, here's to hoping they actually patch the bugs this time.

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Anonymous ID:ud4Qxiho Wed 23 May 2018 17:54:30 No.5234830 Report

Quoted By: >>5235993

I feel like my family (mother, father, little brother) is on the edge of total collapse and the only way to fix it and make it feel like a family again is to marry some chick and have kids. So maybe my parents have a reason to live again. My lil brother is an absolute shithead about to graduate high-school and fuck off to Iraq and im gone so much at college its tough as fuck on everybody. I just want us to be a somewhat happy family again.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ivjcliz6 Wed 23 May 2018 19:16:04 No.5235993 Report

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>>5234830
>fuck off to Iraq
expand on this

As for the rest, shit happens as you get older. As someone who had a family that had huge get-togethers every Sunday and Wednesday, as you grow up and get lives and families of your own shit just kinda happens. It sucks, but that's life.

I'm sorry, Anon.

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