>>537669I agree with you "confidence is key" but I cannot say that I'm confident in myself yet.
I had just 1 grill who liked me for whatever reason, but I ignored her. Now it's been 5+ years since I had been successfully chatting with females. In fact the only female I speak to is my mom ;_;
Feels disheartening because I wanna be good, I don't know how to be "bad", but that's what girls look for. Not all, but in my age bracket at least.
I think I'll find "Her" later in life but I want to get some experience and fun before I do. However I cannot get past Step 1. Even if I did I wouldn't know what to do at Step 2, 3 etc.
PUA is for Chads with big dicks and wallets, I don't have one. My friend who has, he literally tells the girls about his dick and they seem to like that kind of talk.
I'll keep trying but every time I get hurt more and more, not sure how much I can endure this.