There used to be a mindset for it, sure LGBTWTFBBQ has skyrocketed in recent years but it wasnt that long ago when faggots tried to appear normal in public, they'd find women accepting of their condition then marry them and have kids so that even if they were fucking trannies or being someones little bitch in private they contributed to society with no one being the wiser. The question becomes can you be a faggot somewhere else yet still be there when your people need you? I'm sure you can if the poofs before you managed