How do I explain to my mum I want a bf but I'm not gay?? It's just more hard (harder) to find a gf, so I just gave up for now. She just annoys the fuck out of me, she is a lefty open minded "intellectual", "it's okay sweetie, i already knew", NO, you shut up woman, i'm not a fag, just emotionally needy, after I mature i'll drop my bf and find a wife and seed her.