if you are a white knight, fawning over a girl, buying her meals, sending 1000 loving text messages a day, she's just going to use you for what you're worth. A guy looking too "thirsty" is not appealing to girls and some find it creepy.

I remember being in a store listening to this guy chat with 2 girls for the first time. He quickly offered to buy them a Starbucks. I wanted to tell him he's not going to get laid buying Starbucks, he's just going to end up buying more Starbucks.

I'm one of these but I don't fall prey to the women that know I'm nice. So I'm just alone. It bothered me more when I was younger.