Don't overthink things. Don't join a game group that teaches you redundant, predictable shit or buy an expensive seat in some douche's lecture hall. It's a waste of time.
>Step 1. Get prospects. Get in shape, get a decent group of friends, get a nice car, get nice clothes. Something like that. Something that cements your status. You only need a little status to go a long way. But never rest on your laurels. If you have no outstanding accomplishments, just pretend you don't care about stuff. Not caring is cool.
>Step 2. Be more confident. Step 1 will help tremendously, but getting in shape will particularly help. Boost your testosterone and social situations will become easy, perhaps even fun. Google the ways you can naturally boost your T. Odds are, your nervousness around the opposite sex is caused by a hormonal imbalance.
>Step 3. Just DO IT. Everyone fails, but eventually they succeed. Most people aren't permavirgins and have actually had sex. There's no reason you can't be a normal person. You're no different than most normies and you must keep this in mind.
There are little things about your personality like being more funny, dominant, aggressive, attentive, etc. PUAs disagree on which set of things you should be, but in general, women will like you for whatever you are if you're "alpha" enough. If you have certain qualities that play off eachother in a pleasing way, women will be attracted to you. If you're dominant yet attentive, you're a sweet, traditional and masculine man. If you're dominant and selfish, you're a badboy that offers validation for their narcissism. If you're funny and aggressive, you're a manic crazy dude who likes to party and have lots of hot sex, etc. Find your own personality and niche, practice in your mind and you will attract women naturally.