I have been with my wife for 15 years. We have been together almost half as long as we've been alive. The prospect of a virgin marriage (both for me to be and my future wife) was a very important thing. I dated girls and if they had been promiscuous, that was a deal breaker. To make a long story short, my wife lied to me about being a virgin. I only just found out a few days ago. She is unaware of how many people she may have slept with, due to heavily using pot and alcohol her freshman year of college. She has been with at least 2 guys while conscious, and possibly 9 or more others (potential baseball team gangbang) while drunk/high. I knew that she had a rough past, due to her getting kicked out of that same college (for marijuana possession) and that was a big enough hurdle for me to get over. I have always been a drug free/alcohol free person... She has also been since getting with me. How do you think I should handle this situation? She admitted to lying to me because she knew I would not have been interested in her otherwise...