>>6261634You use friends for the exchange of ideas about your field of expertise and study. With women, you want to satisfy other aspects of yourself. The objective is not for her to say interesting stuff, but that you, through her, get a little closer to nature.
Play as a child, have fun, take a walk and try to learn how to feel stuff as an action. Recover or learn the verb "feel" as a concrete action you do.
Do things with intention. Ask people how they feel about stuff, not what they think about it. Opinions are fun but useless. You have to use real world language with real world people.
And it is in your best interest to learn how to properly interact with this world, for your own health.