>>6471908>how can i stop being in love with someone?think about all the shit that is inside their intestine right now
think how they would look like without skin... just 1 millimeter separating "love of my life" from "most horrifying monster"?
think about them farting, pissing, menstruating (if F)... think about all the disgusting, embarrassing things they do when they are alone
in short - see them in most realistic, brutally realistic terms... that is a counter-measure to your idealized version of the person
IF you still like the person even after meditating in this way for a long time, then it might just be the right person for you....
what separates "being in love" from real love, or infatuation from true devotion, is that one creates an idealized , abstract twin of a person, an angel-like ethereal figure that exists only in the world of the person who is in love
but real love is not based on an idealization... it is "being in love PRECISELY with this flawed individual that has all kinds of elements of ugliness, stupidity, pettiness , etc- yet still somehow manages to make me love it"
