>>650874What matters most is how others see you. If you deny this, then you are a fucking idiot. We are a highly social species and we organise our view of ourselves and our surroundings based on how other human beings view us. This is the only reason we function as a species. Some people don't care what others think of them because they don't care about others. That's fine and not hypocritical. But if you claim that you don't care what others think about you, yet you care about others, then you are lying to yourself and everyone else.
Also, I don't think you actually believe this OP, just airing some thoughts to the internet.