As a female, why wouldn't you want to date someone who fetishizes you?

I'm a curvy white girl dating a cute mullato guy, and he is obsessed with my pale skin and curves. He has a good personality too, but nothing feels better than turning on the person you love.
Asian girls, why wouldn't you want a white neckbeard? Yeah, he might not visually be what you want, but he'll love you forever and treat you like a goddess.

I thought it'd be weird dating someone who gets turned on by the color of my skin, but I actually love it! We're so happy and have incredible sex!