>>6625977Problem is you fat-shame too much.
The ones to be shamed are the people letting obese people believe it's OK to be fat. It's not OK to be fat. It makes you sad and lonely, it makes you costly for the community.
One of my brothers tends to get fat. As a family we told them to control that, and now he does so. I have nothing against fat people, I can't take families who let them get fat without doing anything.