>>666114For a more "helpful" answer, you can easily get abs through dedication, but you don't really need to do that.
Guys that are "perfect" ie tall muscled badass with a pretty face are rare, very rare, I have a similar, if slightly smaller belly, but got big arm muscles from swimming. Also managed to get rid of my autism by forcing myself to go to social gatherings until I stopped being a robot through practice.
You can get a gf just fine without any special qualities, but things like some well developed part of your body, nice face, confident personality are just boosters that can help you, but they aren't necessary.
Remeber, fear of rejection is worse than rejection, anon. If you are nervous about meeting people at all, then I reccomend getting a little drunk, it's good for begginers.