>be me reading through 4chan comments, blaming “chads” for hoarding all the women
>be 28
>be in long term relationship
>have fucked 10 women
>be white, average looking, 7/10 on my best day
>not into sports anymore and gave up drinking after some bad blackouts


I have never been a dickhead to women, and yet I still got laid plenty before my longterm gf. It is literally as easy as trying to talk to women. Sometimes you flame out and they give you the cold shoulder - you just move on.

Do you guys not do any extra-curricular activities that would help you meet girls? Girls just want to see that you are interested in shit.

I was a virgin until I was 20 because of neetism. I didn’t join clubs and I worshipped celebrity women in my room. I thought clubs in highschool were lame and avoided them, instead hanging out with the same losers I kept as friends since middle school. I idolized the prettiest girls at school and obsessed over female celebrities. In my mind, women should come to me. I rationalized that it was not fair that i have to be one to act first, and falsely believed that the Chads in highschool didn’t have to work for anything they got.

When I turned twenty I decides to get hobbies. Took a photography class. Took an improv class (this is perfect because most others are shy in beginner classes, met my first girlfriend here). Volunteered at a food kitchen (I met a girl and got laid doing this).

I’m pretty sure you’re all afflicated with neetism, causing you to lash out at ladies. Even that incel who rammed his van into people was not too ugly to fuck. He wasn’t Brad Pitt, but if he made himself more interesting by getting out of his shell a bit he could easily fuck an 8/10 woman.

My one piece of advice is to avoid hitting on girls at a bar. If you aren’t able to do it at starbucks sober, you will make an ass of yourself trying to do it drunk. Just be yourself and meet women on your own terms. The rest just sort of happens