>>6886333>>6886337>So here's the deal [...] And they will fucking adore you for it.If anything, I always paid attention to every detail, especially the little tiny details on a person's clothing, style, etc. Shit like this speaks for someone's character.
I never talk too much, especially about myself, I only talk, like a lot, when someone asks me to explain something to them. I always prefered listening to what the other person has to say, it gives you a lot of insight on who they are, by picking up the subtle stuff they entangle in their everyday conversations without them knowing. I just fucking like to observe in general and keep the focus away from myself, because people fucking love to have someone that they can self-reflect upon.
As for the second part, as of now, I only try to get the attention of people that I actually find interesting. Most people are just so generic, I never treat them like inferior or in a patronizing way, I just don't pursue anything further other than a simple everyday social interaction with them.
For example, the qt from uni that I've been talking about, I just liked her style and the impression that she striked to me as a person. Turns out, that we actually share pretty much the exact taste in music, which I always appreciate. I made my self visible in her radar, and things are going decently as of now.
I understand the point you were trying to make, that is, putting your self in other's people's radars, even if you haven't even met them, but in general, I just don't find it worth the trouble, really. I really can't explain it, but when I realise a person just doesn't have anything to offer other than a shitty 10 minute conversation about football teams, I am really turned off.
I just fake interest, something that I actually do quite well as of recently, and try to walk away without coming out as rude or being bored.
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