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Quoted By: >>696017
Women want a man to be their one captain, pic related.
If you want devotion then you have to lead her, inspire her. Steer the directionless ship that is her life. If you ever aren't sure how to proceed in a situation then think how Captain Picard (or whoever) would have behaved in front of his crew.
> I'm new to this relationship how should I win her over?
Earn her respect. You are auditioning for a leadership role in her life. Act decisive. Don't be a pussy. Take care of yourself. Would you go to an interview in dirty pajamas?
> What do I do once I have earned her respect?
KEEP IT. Highest priority. You only have so many strikes before she questions following you. Be aware of this.
> She wants me to show weakness and be vulnerable, should I?
No fucking way. Meditate, learn to control negative emotions. Do you think Picard would bitch and act weak in front of people who are trusting him with their lives? Acting confused and vulnerable makes you look like a poor leader, fake it if you must.
> Should I cry
Good god no. Exceptions if you just lost someone close to you, otherwise this is basically suicide. No matter what she says she will lose a giant amount of attraction and respect from seeing you this weak. Get a dog, a therapist (troi) or some beta friendzoned chick to dump insecurities on.
> Should I be honest right now?
It depends. Everyone likes a leader they feel tells it like it is. Use your discretion here. Captains give feedback, and sometimes even take it.
> Should I let her set the course
That bitch will just keep taking your starship to Riza. You're going to have to do shit regardless, so pick the vacations and activities yourself. Why do you think so many women pretend they like sports? If she's dragging you out to shit then 9 times out of 10 then you're on the losing side.
tldr; act like picard you autist fucks, or you wont be making any more of... the next generation.
If you want devotion then you have to lead her, inspire her. Steer the directionless ship that is her life. If you ever aren't sure how to proceed in a situation then think how Captain Picard (or whoever) would have behaved in front of his crew.
> I'm new to this relationship how should I win her over?
Earn her respect. You are auditioning for a leadership role in her life. Act decisive. Don't be a pussy. Take care of yourself. Would you go to an interview in dirty pajamas?
> What do I do once I have earned her respect?
KEEP IT. Highest priority. You only have so many strikes before she questions following you. Be aware of this.
> She wants me to show weakness and be vulnerable, should I?
No fucking way. Meditate, learn to control negative emotions. Do you think Picard would bitch and act weak in front of people who are trusting him with their lives? Acting confused and vulnerable makes you look like a poor leader, fake it if you must.
> Should I cry
Good god no. Exceptions if you just lost someone close to you, otherwise this is basically suicide. No matter what she says she will lose a giant amount of attraction and respect from seeing you this weak. Get a dog, a therapist (troi) or some beta friendzoned chick to dump insecurities on.
> Should I be honest right now?
It depends. Everyone likes a leader they feel tells it like it is. Use your discretion here. Captains give feedback, and sometimes even take it.
> Should I let her set the course
That bitch will just keep taking your starship to Riza. You're going to have to do shit regardless, so pick the vacations and activities yourself. Why do you think so many women pretend they like sports? If she's dragging you out to shit then 9 times out of 10 then you're on the losing side.
tldr; act like picard you autist fucks, or you wont be making any more of... the next generation.
