My husband is kind, sweet, funny. Not without his faults like all of us. But I have ZERO physical attraction to him.
And it isn't a case of feeling it is the beginning and letting resentments and life change how I feel. I have never found him attractive. I thought I could be happy being with a man who was friendly, made me giggle and would never hurt me. I was wrong.
He is a good man and father. I just don't want him.