Okay, I'm a woman, I'm not self hating I really just wanna know why most of the women that I had considered as "friends" always want to know what I'm doing and always want to do things their way. They would go through trying to figure the security code on my phone and go through my text messages and every little thing that they don't agree on they end yelling at me. Also they always want me to do the activities they want to do and not ask my opinion if I would want to go or not. I just wanna get on with my own life, if they wanna hang out then good, if they don't that's their choice. I don't want them dragging me wherever or whatever the hell they wanna do.