>>7132801Well, don't know what exactly to help with and how, since I'm a complete stranger to your relations to each other.
But I will say this: not all Russians are tsundere, but this type is a majority indeed. But beyond our shell of initial ice, coldness, and shyness lies an endless amount of warmth and comfort for ones who are able to endure trying to break through this shell. It may be hard to melt, but the returns will surely be rewarding and worthwile. Just give it some time.
But don't blame me if you won't be able to break through the shell. It's tempered with ages living in cold and rough climate, after all.