Just broke up with my first bf. Trying to get over it. Have resolved that maybe I should try hooking up to make the process faster. This guy was my first EVERYTHING. It’s hard to picture myself with anyone else.

Not sure the social norms around hooking up and stuff.
Also very rare that I find a guy that’s attractive to me. (Wasn’t physically attracted to my ex). Don’t know if I could have a meaningless hookup with a guy I don’t find hot.
How to hook up. What to do about lack of attraction.