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Zero friends

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:37:08 No.7188408 View View Reply Original Report

I have made zero friends since I was born to the college age.
social fags are all probably out todays with bunch of people
do you have any friends and what is it feel like to have any friend...

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:38:10 No.7188409 Report

Quoted By: >>7188448 >>7188474 >>7188482

so what is it feel like to have friends?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:38:15 No.7188410 Report

Quoted By: >>7188411

Stop being a leftist.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:38:59 No.7188411 Report

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>>7188410
how am I a fucking leftist ?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:39:51 No.7188412 Report

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>>7188408
Don't worry, I'm your fren.
Merry Christmas, brother.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:41:07 No.7188413 Report

Quoted By: >>7188416 >>7188417 >>7188420 >>7188425 >>7188468 >>7188474

>>7188408
Friends are mostly a pain in the ass, they're always trying to get you to do stuff they enjoy (that you might not), or asking for a favor of one kind or another.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:42:08 No.7188414 Report

Quoted By: >>7188425

Nah dude, first year college my residence all my friends either got kicked out, transferred or went to jail. I only have 1 friend now in my university town and I hate doing extra curriculum but I think I will have to make some friends because 2 years with only 1-2 friends is lonely

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:43:13 No.7188415 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188408
nope

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:43:38 No.7188416 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188413
Then your friends suck balls.
Friends are the best... until you find a gf and she ruins everything REEEEEEEEE

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:43:45 No.7188417 Report

Quoted By: >>7188474

>>7188413
>or asking for a favor of one kind or another.
This
Everyone is really just pretending and using each other.
At the first sign of trouble these so called friends will be the first to ditch you.
All a man really has is himself and time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:43:50 No.7188418 Report

Quoted By: >>7188421 >>7188422 >>7188424 >>7188427 >>7188473 >>7190107

I am wondering what is the percentage of people who have absolutely zero friends? am I like the 0.01%? All people I know have friends, even those nerds have. most people are social fags.
am I socially deficient?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:45:24 No.7188419 Report

Quoted By: >>7188425

i don't have friends either

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:46:09 No.7188420 Report

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>>7188413
>Friends are mostly a pain in the ass
Somethings telling me you don't have a lot of friends
>they're always trying to get you to do stuff they enjoy
Wow, imagine becoming friends with somebody and not wanting to do things with them, especially something you know brings your friend joy
>(that you might not)
Typically when finding friends you find people that share interests with you, so you don't have this issue
>or asking for a favor of one kind or another
Wait until you need help and there is nobody there for you. I used to work with a close friend and when his car got totaled, I drove a few minutes out of my way to take him in to work every day until he could get his fixed. I can't understate how much he has paid it back to me.

Humans are social creatures, learn this and you'll be much happier.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:46:22 No.7188421 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188418
how do u litterally not know anyone except for ur family

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:46:56 No.7188422 Report

Quoted By: >>7188433 >>7190111

>>7188418
Most adults don't really have friends like you did in school.
They're busy being married and raising kids and shit.
It's just part of growing up.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:47:16 No.7188423 Report

Quoted By: >>7188428

Are you Dutch?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:47:33 No.7188424 Report

Quoted By: >>7188429 >>7188434

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:47:51 No.7188425 Report

Quoted By: >>7190115

>>7188414 >>7188419
>>7188413
I used be to proud of having 0 friends coz it was cool. until now it is Christmas and I feel depressed as fuck

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:47:59 No.7188426 Report

Quoted By: >>7188436 >>7188437 >>7188474

Don't worry. Almost nobody has friends. A friend is someone you can call home from his vacation when you have a problem.

It's all superficial and nothing of real value.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:48:36 No.7188427 Report

Quoted By: >>7188439

>>7188418
Real friends are pretty hard to come by and pretty hard to make post college i guess.
So a lot of ppl think that they have friend when actually they are not considered to be a friend by the other party.
Good place to find a good friend: your local boxing/muay thai/mma club. Believe it or not fothting bonds men, i found one the best friend in my life this way

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:48:41 No.7188428 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188423
no, but I am only temporally in the NL

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:49:18 No.7188429 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188424
Hiw did this shit happen

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:49:21 No.7188430 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188408
15 million Nedertards voelen met je mee

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:49:30 No.7188431 Report

Quoted By: >>7188436 >>7188441

>>7188408
Let me tell you something, op. In this day and age you don't need friends, you need debtors. Focus on yourself and stop thinking what other people are doing.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:50:00 No.7188432 Report

Quoted By: >>7188436

>>7188408
friends are overrated especially in 2018

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:50:24 No.7188433 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188422
this is true. the fun from 17 to 25 will not be repeated for me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:51:16 No.7188434 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188424
>Real friends
I don't even have regular friends

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:52:54 No.7188435 Report

Quoted By: >>7188438 >>7190117

>>7188408

Who cares about friends all they do is stab you in the back , all you really need is Jesus

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:53:28 No.7188436 Report

Quoted By: >>7188443

>>7188426
>>7188431
>>7188432
I also thought I dont need any friends, I maybe I can choose a career related to math or quants...
but today is Christmas, I feel weird

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:53:37 No.7188437 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188426

underrated

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:53:52 No.7188438 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188435
amen

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:55:52 No.7188439 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188427
>Good place to find a good friend: your local boxing/muay thai/mma club. Believe it or not fothting bonds men, i found one the best friend in my life this way
guess how my cousin got his wife? they met in a local taekondo club

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:56:22 No.7188440 Report

Quoted By: >>7188442

Merry Christmas Eve OP

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:56:58 No.7188441 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188431
based senpai. Any more from that thread?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:58:23 No.7188442 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188440
amen

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:58:45 No.7188443 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188436
>I feel weird
Yea people expect friends like back in the day, where you really support each other and actually help and create bonds, 2018 friends are just people you occasionally meet/hang, message everyone on their phone at every 10 min on some bullshit.

Just like women they act like sluts and attention whores but they expect to be treated like they some trad woman in the 60s.

Just look around you man, you don't want these people around you anyway.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 21:59:10 No.7188444 Report

Quoted By: >>7188445 >>7188487

also, is there a christmas or something in burger land today?because we dont celebrate shit until 31. Ifit is, marry christmas anons. Eat a burger and fire you freedom gun for me, i wish i had a gun.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:00:44 No.7188445 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188444
How do you not own an AK?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:00:53 No.7188446 Report

Quoted By: >>7188450 >>7188515

This thread is filled with some fucking negative people, I can honestly see why you're all alone and have no friends.
Have you lot considered that it might be because you have shitty personalities and don't put trust or faith in other human beings?
I have some fucking great friends, some real ride or dies. It wasn't easy to get here and I've definitely trimmed dead weight more than once, but if you put the work into being somebody's friend, they'll return it.
If not, cut them loose and move on, just like a woman.
You are all fucking pathetic, change your worldview and perhaps you'll be more deserving of companionship.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:01:28 No.7188447 Report

Quoted By: >>7188458

>>7188408
Right there with you, Anon. I'm sitting here in the park of my home town, broke as a joke with no money for food for the next week because of bills and a gas leak in my place, no friends, my family is long dead and gone. Been an orphan for years now. Nobody cares. I wish I had one friend.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:04:18 No.7188448 Report

Quoted By: >>7188452

>>7188409
>so what is it feel like to have friends?
terrible

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:05:17 No.7188449 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188408
I grew distant from most of the people I grew up with, which I feel is a pretty routine thing and pretty healthy if you know how to handle it. I moved back home two years ago after some financial difficulties and seeing that most of my peer group were not making any real investments into their future was very disappointing. Nowadays I have one close friend I work on music with, one from before I moved back home that I call on a regular basis, and one from work that I can talk with about things discussed here. If you play the numbers game, you will be disappointed. The best thing to do is invest your time in your interests and continuously improve yourself. Go out of your way to find places conducive to improving your abilities, and always speak honestly. I can make no guarantees that you will find anyone you will be able to call a friend, but if you go about it this way, the friends you do make will be worth keeping.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:06:17 No.7188450 Report

Quoted By: >>7188454 >>7188470

>>7188446
>some real ride or dies
So your telling us your a nigger?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:07:09 No.7188451 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188408
It’s better to have no friends and learn to stand strong on your own and know yourself than to settle for bad friends who you compromise your principles to appease. Very Merry Christmas from me to you, friend. I mean that.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:09:43 No.7188452 Report

Quoted By: >>7188456 >>7188460

>>7188448
Reminder that even when you feel terrible there’s always someone worse off than you.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:13:12 No.7188453 Report

Quoted By: >>7188457 >>7188462 >>7188469

I became a neet and shut myself away from society for the past two years. Stopped talking to all my friends and acquaintances and the only person besides my parents I have contact with is my dealer.

At this point I have to say having no friends is complete torture. Every night I dream about people I used to know and I wake up pretty depressed. The loneliness chips away at your soul and happiness over time. Would not recommend.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:13:46 No.7188454 Report

Quoted By: >>7188465

>>7188450
>So your telling us your a nigger?
Great take away, showing me more why you don't deserve friends.
Don't argue the semantics, argue the point I made, which is that having a negative mindset and not putting faith in others will keep you from making any friends.
And it's not healthy to try and convince other people to avoid making friends because you're fucking garbage at it. Humans are social creatures and if it's not working for you, something with you is fucked up. Fix yourself and the rest will follow.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:13:56 No.7188455 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188408
Christmas is depressing even with friends. But try getting out. Even going to metal shows, music is a good start. Whatever you might enjoy.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:14:02 No.7188456 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188452

Until you are the most worse

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:14:16 No.7188457 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188453
fuck you, leaf

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:15:33 No.7188458 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188447
Where the fuck do you live?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:16:29 No.7188459 Report

Quoted By: >>7188466 >>7190161

>>7188408
If you hangout with friends on Christmas then you are a piece of shit. Christmas is for family; be there for your kin.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:16:37 No.7188460 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188452
thats a weird fuckin cat

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:16:55 No.7188461 Report

Quoted By: >>7188463

>>7188408
Having friends is kind of lame. I only have a few friends. I think I might have avoidant personality disorder.
I'm going to a friend's house for dinner tomorrow night. Of my two friends in this town I like him better. Both of my friends drink a bit more than I would if I were them. But at least this one doesn't start talking about gay stuff after a few drinks. Last time we were all together the other one started had a few drinks and started talking about traps, some guy getting fucked to death by a horse, Japanese traps, how gay dudes like him and think he's a bear, and cuck porn. My friend creeps me out.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:19:20 No.7188462 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188453

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:19:25 No.7188463 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188461
>started talking about traps, some guy getting fucked to death by a horse, Japanese traps, how gay dudes like him and think he's a bear, and cuck porn. My friend creeps me out.

Just an average 4 channer then

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:20:32 No.7188464 Report

Quoted By:

Bump. More self-pity and narcissism to celebrate Christmas!

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:20:34 No.7188465 Report

Quoted By: >>7188467 >>7188470

>>7188454
You sound like a kid.
Just saying
Don't get me wrong, I find you naivete rather cute.
>Fix yourself and the rest will follow.
Thanks Dr. phill.
Should I clean my room too?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:21:01 No.7188466 Report

Quoted By: >>7190162

>>7188459
>Christmas is for family
if your family is Christian, then that is true

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:22:05 No.7188467 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188465
an average /pol/ poster is in his early 20's, not even 25 yo.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:22:52 No.7188468 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188413
so much this

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:26:59 No.7188469 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188453
>At this point I have to say having no friends is complete torture. Every night I dream about people I used to know and I wake up pretty depressed. The loneliness chips away at your soul and happiness over time. Would not recommend

Praise the lord i am a psychopath i really don't care for other people or want anything to do with them

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:28:23 No.7188470 Report

Quoted By: >>7188475

>>7188465
>You sound like a kid
>>7188450
Immediately call me a nigger, seems childish.
I think it sounds pretty childish when grown men dispense the idea of having friends because it's too much work or "they'll ditch you"
You're still not responding to the core of my argument though, you're literally just nitpicking certain things and insulting me, which is probably why you don't have any friends.
Care to actually respond?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:31:29 No.7188471 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188408
I've been a recluse since 2012, i pretty much have no friends. Truth is I've simply been hiding away from life, i despair at the state of the world and people and want little to do with them.

However this isn't a healthy way to be and i know that soon i will need to be social again. I just find it hard to give a shit about anything most of the time..

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:32:54 No.7188472 Report

Quoted By: >>7188511

>>7188408
i have a few friends but id really like a group of fellow blackpilled redpilled friends so we can laugh about how shit everything is, they wouldn't even have to be white just not jewish, black or gay.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:33:17 No.7188473 Report

Quoted By: >>7188483 >>7188486

>>7188418
I have literally zero friends outside of immediate family, and only my brother is my "best friend." I talk to people in college only as circumstance dictates. I realize I'm missing the connections your supposed to make at college but oh well. I had "friends" in elementary school, but my mom moved me around every other year, so I didn't keep any and eventually fell behind in social skills.
I can do professional interactions and formal shit, but small talk and anything informal I'm a complete sperg.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:42:19 No.7188474 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188409
>so what is it feel like to have friends?

Who cares?

What does it feel like to be an eagle?
What does it feel like to have a pussy?

>>7188413
This really...
>>7188417
THIIIS!

>>7188426
THIIIIIIIS!

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:42:20 No.7188475 Report

Quoted By: >>7188478

>>7188470
> you don't deserve friends.
> you have shitty personalities
>You are all fucking pathetic
The core of your "Argument" is that the reason we don't have friends is that we are bad people.
Okay.
> I've definitely trimmed dead weight more than once
See, your exactly the kind of asshole I'm talking about.
You're little more than a fair weather friend.
You are a hanger on that will abandon ship at the first sign of trouble.

The worst part is your fucking arrogance about the subject.
You really think your better than everyone.
Go fuck yourself.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:42:36 No.7188476 Report

Quoted By: >>7188480

>ITT: Pathetic and negative losers making endless justifications for their loneliness
Having friends is great and the work is worth it if you're not absolutely fucking retarded and find good friends.
You can tell yourself til the cows come home that it's too much work, they'll end up backstabbing you, they'll ask you for favors, etc.
But deep down you must realize that it's you, and not them. Most people on this earth have at least one friend, because there's fucking countless benefits to having them.
But you lot don't care, you'd rather throw yourselves a pity party and pretend that the world is just shit and you guys are "above" having friends.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:46:20 No.7188477 Report

Quoted By: >>7188484 >>7188491

I don't understand how a person does not have any friends. What kinda of a weirdo loser are you? Human beings are social creatures by default, and as long as you are willing to even just run around with another kid, you'll make friends.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:46:20 No.7188478 Report

Quoted By: >>7188507

>>7188475
>See, your exactly the kind of asshole I'm talking about.
>You're little more than a fair weather friend.
>You are a hanger on that will abandon ship at the first sign of trouble
You actually don't know a fucking thing about me. And it's not about being a fair weather friend, it's about admitting when you're compatible with a person or not. Whether or not you can mesh and even be friends with this person.
People change and friends drift apart, trimming dead weight doesn't have to mean that you just cut ties because you're a shitty friend, that's how YOU interpreted it.
My point is that if you can't make any fucking friends, change something about yourself.

>The worst part is your fucking arrogance about the subject
My arrogance? Because I'd rather not let a bunch of fucking losers throw themselves a pity party?
Pick yourself up by the bootstraps and grow the fuck up, making friends is simple shut, thus the "arrogance" - it's not fucking hard.

>You really think your better than everyone
No, not everyone, mostly just you and a lot of the people in this thread.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:46:53 No.7188479 Report

Quoted By:

>>197676617
If you go to Italy, join casapound. You will find good people there who will care about you

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:47:15 No.7188480 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188476
>are "above" having friends

If you drive on the country side... do you stop your car and walk over to the sheep gracing and start having a discussion with them?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:48:43 No.7188481 Report

Quoted By: >>7188485

Having a friend is a lot like having a job. It's a lot of work and often feel like you're faking it or not pulling your weight, but at the end of the day you feel like you've done something worthwhile and you're happier because of it.

You don't need people to like you to make friends, you have to like people.

If you don't like people, then you wouldn't really enjoy having friends so it doesn't matter.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:49:06 No.7188482 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188409
20% pleasure, 50% pain

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:50:05 No.7188483 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188473
>I can do professional interactions and formal shit, but small talk and anything informal I'm a complete sperg
same, I even led a small team and won the first place back in high school, but anything social I will be marginalised, like those stupid movies, tv shows, Netflix stuff, I have no idea what is going on. The last time when I was having an informal conversation with 3 people, initially I can say something until they started talk about tv shows, I couldn't even keep the conversation flow, it was embarrassing

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:50:40 No.7188484 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188477
>this

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:50:59 No.7188485 Report

Quoted By: >>7188506

>>7188481
>If you don't like people, then you wouldn't really enjoy having friends so it doesn't matter.
>If you don't like people
>don't like people
Imagine being a human being and not liking ANY human being.
Perhaps the problem is that you're generalizing the whole species as shit? It'd be a lot easier to find friends if you didn't just assume that every single human being isn't worth your time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:52:36 No.7188486 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188473
it's as if I wrote this post

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:52:39 No.7188487 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188444
repent you pagan orthocuck

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:52:43 No.7188488 Report

Quoted By: >>7188493 >>7188508 >>7190173

>>7188408
Friends are over rated. Just find a wife that can be your best friend too

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:53:18 No.7188489 Report

Quoted By: >>7188492

>>7188408
do you hate the negro and the jew, while also abstaining from vices, with a drive to self improve? if so il be yor fren, in flag related.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:53:35 No.7188490 Report

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Friends are overrated. Most of mine over the years threw me under the bus. Im oldfag so it's been a lot. Fuck people. They always disappoint.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:54:23 No.7188491 Report

Quoted By: >>7188495 >>7188498 >>7188499

>>7188477
when I first came to uni, I saw new people started forming groups and talking to each other. I just don't understand, how did they know each other, like they were from the same high school?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:55:46 No.7188492 Report

Quoted By: >>7188494

>>7188489
>do you hate the negro and the jew
hate is a strong word, but desu, I don't like them.
I try to avoid black neighbours

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:56:54 No.7188493 Report

Quoted By: >>7188497 >>7188502

>>7188488
>Just find a wife
as a traditional man, I do want to get a wife, the point is how? I am passive and socially deficient

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:57:06 No.7188494 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188492
avoidance is not good enough, if you meet a negro, you must be able to look them in the eye and say to them "I dont like you, because you are a negro" if you can do that, il be your friend.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:57:22 No.7188495 Report

Quoted By: >>7188501

>>7188491
>when I first came to uni,
You go to school to be educated for better pay, it’s not a social club. Focus get your degree, don’t look back

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:58:02 No.7188496 Report

Quoted By:

Also, just because you grew distant with former friends doesn't mean that door is closed forever. We have this weird notion that we have to keep up with our friends all the time and know everything they're doing and see them whenever they need something, but that is more the responsibility of a romantic partner. We get distant from each other and then stop reaching out because we feel guilty about growing distant, but it's a defeatist attitude that's untrue. Some of my best friends I only see once a year, and before that we spent entire years not seeing each other, but still every time he reaches out I'm happy to pick up the phone and catch up, I don't take it personally that he has a wife and kids and is busy.

Seriously, if you're lonely then just reach out to someone else who is lonely, it's that simple. And in 2018 in the digital age, it's a pretty safe bet that most people are lonely. However, the important thing is to reach out because you wanted to see THAT person, not because you wanted to see ANY person. That's not a friendship, that's a loneliness transaction and people see right through it. Nobody wants to feel like they're being used as on object to improve another person's life, so as long as you avoid treating people like that they will enjoy your company. Just ask them questions about themselves and listen without judgment, people are so eager to talk about themselves in a frank environment because they're being fake every day of their lives.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:58:13 No.7188497 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188493
Find a girl you like, say something nice. If she likes you it doesn’t matter how awkward it comes out.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:58:15 No.7188498 Report

Quoted By:

>>7188491
feel ya bruh.
you may need to be able to relax around others, antidepressants helped me with this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:59:33 No.7188499 Report

Quoted By: >>7188503 >>7188520

>>7188491
I went backpacking in Europe, and I made friends everywhere I went, and these were people from different countries. In fact, the best friend I made was a Dutch guy I met at a hostel, and we ended up traveling together, and having tons of fun. You need to be social with people, talk and listen, and be of help, and so on.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 22:59:58 No.7188500 Report

Quoted By: >>7190180

I made all my good friends from elementary to high school. I really lucked out, they're great people. I feel sorry for you all who have no one. I hope someday you guys find good friends. Try and put yourself out there even if its awkward, you never know, you might meet some lonely people like yourselves.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:00:03 No.7188501 Report

Quoted By: >>7188510

>>7188495
you are right, the irony is, my asian parents are more concerned with my social health than education.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:01:06 No.7188502 Report

Quoted By: >>7188504

>>7188493
Anxiety is the parasympathetic nervous system responding to what it perceives as a threat in the environment.
So when you get anxiety when talking to women, it's your brain misinterpreting stimuli as a threat - that pretty girl may as well be a fucking bear getting ready to maul you, simply because it's a situation with which you're not familiar.
You will never grow comfortable with these situations unless you put yourself in them. All growth occurs outside of the comfort zone.

So when somebody to just find a wife, yes, it is actually just as simple as that, but your retarded animal brain is making something much more of it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:01:30 No.7188503 Report

Quoted By: >>7188509

>>7188499
>Dutch guy I met at a hostel, and we ended up traveling together
That didn’t sound gay, if not tits or GTFO

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:01:58 No.7188504 Report

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>>7188502
when somebody says to just find a wife**

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:02:15 No.7188505 Report

Quoted By: >>7190182

>>7188408
I used to have a couple of friends until I realised that this whole time they were either just exploiting me, making fun at or ask for favours that they would later never repay ever.

Since then I've had trouble making new friends or rather trusting people in general. There is nothing worse than when someone you think you can rely on betrays or leaves you behind as if it was nothing. I wouldn't wish that even to my worst enemies.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:02:33 No.7188506 Report

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>>7188485
Of course, I used to be like that and I was very sad because of it. Truth is I didn't like people because I didn't KNOW people. What I didn't like was the way people portray themselves in public (Fake, vain, etc), and I didn't have the personal experience to know that was a mask. I felt like I was the only real person in a sea of robots because I just couldn't connect to the mask that people were wearing. But then when I got to know real friends and learned a better understanding of people, I learned that they were really like me the whole time. They were just pretending to be the things that I hate because of social pressures to be that way. And then I realized that I was coming off the exact same way, because I never made the effort to take my mask off either.

I think what antisocial people really hate aren't people, but just the mask that people are pressured by society into wearing. Once that mask falls, it's much easier to make friends. And the best way to enable someone else to take their mask off is to take yours off first.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:02:42 No.7188507 Report

Quoted By: >>7188516

>>7188478
>I'd rather not let a bunch of fucking losers throw themselves a pity party?
>Losers
Yeah, you may not be able to see the forrest from the trees, this sort of shit totally makes you a asshole whom thinks he knows everything.
In other words arrogant.
Making friends is not hard or is the end all be all of this world.
>Pick yourself up by the bootstraps

this is the sort of self reliance I've been saying the whole thread just not nearly as faggy.

>You really think your better than everyone
No, not everyone, mostly just you and a lot of the people in this thread.
how does this not make you look like a self important asshole?

Look as you grow older the people in your life will slip away and do there own things, so will you.
Friends as an adult are really just acquaintances that you sometimes do favors for.
Most adults stand alone, that's life.

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:03:55 No.7188508 Report

Quoted By: >>7188514

>>7188488

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:05:50 No.7188509 Report

Quoted By: >>7188513

>>7188503
Dude, get off your Jew induced programming for once, and understand that men making friends with other men, it's normal, and there is nothing sexual about it whatsoever. I'm not a homo, and neither is my buddy, we just stroke up as guys with things in common, got along really well and decided to just travel together because it was more fun that way.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:06:16 No.7188510 Report

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>>7188501
>my social health than education.
When you make good money after education and able to afford big boy toys you will not have social life problems. Something that has to do with women looking for men who can provide for future children.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:06:47 No.7188511 Report

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>>7188472

> they wouldn't even have to be white just not jewish, black or gay

so white lol

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:07:33 No.7188512 Report

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https://twitter.com/severeweatherEU/status/1077308641961754626

let
it
burn

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:07:44 No.7188513 Report

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>>7188509
>we just stroke up as guys
hmmmmmmm

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:08:05 No.7188514 Report

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>>7188508
No, happily married to my best friend for 7yr now

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:09:23 No.7188515 Report

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>>7188446
al my old friends think 911 was done by Osama bin laden.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:09:30 No.7188516 Report

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>>7188507
I don't know what else you'd call a bunch of depressing loners? People that have gotten to the point in life where they just don't even want to make friends any more?
From all angles, the majority of the people in this thread are presenting themselves as losers and I stand by that.
Also hypocritical to call me out for that when you've been insulting me this entire time as well.

>how does this not make you look like a self important asshole?
To be frank, you've already convinced me that you're not interested in making friends, which is why you're a loser and don't have an opinion worth respecting, because even if I wanted to be your friend you're just dead to the world I guess.

>Most adults stand alone, that's life.
Then you've had bad role models or have been through some shit I'd like to avoid

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Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:10:13 No.7188517 Report

Quoted By: >>7188519

>>7188408
Same as you dutch guy

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:10:37 No.7188518 Report

Quoted By: >>7188519

>>7188408
Where are you from anon, I am also alone

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:12:22 No.7188519 Report

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>>7188517
>>7188518
I am not dutch, I am temporarily here as a student

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:12:30 No.7188520 Report

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>>7188499
goddammit, leaf, you are pathetic

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:cYVXitkd Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:13:01 No.7188523 Report

Quoted By: >>7188542 >>7188556

what are some redpilled friends

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:NDANI8BJ Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:13:32 No.7188531 Report

Quoted By: >>7188540

>>7188408
have no friends, haven't seen family in months

i don't know

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Anonymous ID:LfWit2do Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:14:01 No.7188532 Report

Quoted By: >>7188668

anyone got any redpilled friends

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ha5gUxrE Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:15:09 No.7188538 Report

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Cope

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:OLTtAJY9 Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:15:47 No.7188540 Report

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>>7188531
>haven't seen family in months
same

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:FKw6hpKw Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:16:01 No.7188541 Report

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Fuck leafs and gooks
>t. Latino BVLL

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Mhyjv0zL Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:16:11 No.7188542 Report

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>>7188523

Not hook nosed kikes , that is for sure

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:OLTtAJY9 Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:19:19 No.7188556 Report

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>>7188523
shekel is your friend

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:IpXxQgd5 Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:21:01 No.7188566 Report

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>>197672143
I've got a handful of online friends, stretching that definition pretty far. Ultimately no one really cares for me. It's mildly annoying because I'm obliged somewhat to keep in touch when with them even when I'm not in the mood.

I'm regularly on Telegram, XMPP, riot.im, Wire, Signal, Tox, and Mumble.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:NGrKJ1dw Mon 24 Dec 2018 23:45:06 No.7188668 Report

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>>7188532
I got one.
He is my only friend.
And i made him a redpill.
All the other ran away and who i'm no longer friends with.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:3vrblO2b Tue 25 Dec 2018 00:52:15 No.7189025 Report

Quoted By: >>7189029

OP, are you a virgin?
I too have literally zero friends. Haven't had any for over 10 years. Also a virgin in my mid 20s.

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Anonymous ID:tUiirNyI Tue 25 Dec 2018 00:53:47 No.7189029 Report

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>>7189025
Virgin NEET fagmark aka the first /bant/ wizard lole

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Jjm1sgIY Tue 25 Dec 2018 04:45:07 No.7190087 Report

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>>7188408
I don't have friends either. It's a lot of effort. Plus my politics matter more to me than having to be friends with the Liberal options out there.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:zUFSwjWi Tue 25 Dec 2018 04:50:27 No.7190098 Report

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>>7188408
No friends. No Internet friends, either. The pressure of maintaining a relationship with anybody always becomes too great and I end up ghosting them.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Jjm1sgIY Tue 25 Dec 2018 04:55:18 No.7190107 Report

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>>7188418
I don't have friends because it takes time and effort to get to know someone. If you didn't grow up in the same place with your friends, you have to keep making new ones which is hard. It doesn't mean you're bad it just means you value independence over the value of a loved one.
Additionally, my politics matter and I can't be friends with Liberals so that cuts out a lot of people.

Anonymous

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>>7188422
This

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Anonymous ID:Jjm1sgIY Tue 25 Dec 2018 04:57:02 No.7190115 Report

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>>7188425
I feel for you, God bless

Anonymous

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>>7188435
This

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>>7188459
This

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>>7188466
This

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>>7188488
This

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>>7188500
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>>7188505
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