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How do you greet girls you just met?

Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 13:42:20 No.7214576 View View Reply Original Report

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I want to introduce myself to a cute girl at church tomorrow, she's come the last few sunday's but I haven't spoken to her. Am I supposed to shake her hand when I meet her, or is that too formal and kill a lot of chance at romance? Is it OK to hug her in church? She usually goes with who I assume is her mom.
What do you usually do when meeting a girl for the first time?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:6GN2iL7s Sat 29 Dec 2018 13:47:24 No.7214880 Report

Quoted By: >>7214928

Rape and kill

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:6xXg+RtU Sat 29 Dec 2018 13:53:39 No.7214921 Report

Quoted By: >>7214928 >>7215409

>>7214576
She will see through you if you just randomly approach her. Stalk her to figure out her daily routine and then "bump into her by accident" until she notices you.
I have no experience but I read the book "By way of deception" by some jew agent man. Jew spies use this technique to approach stupid sandniggers.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 13:55:09 No.7214928 Report

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>>7214880
Ah yes, the true Barbarian way.
>>7214921
Fuck you.

Fat Nigger

Fat Nigger ID:ehbkTjhw Sat 29 Dec 2018 13:57:15 No.7214931 Report

Quoted By: >>7214962

>>7214576
Give her a hug, if you can.
Handshake is too "friendly" in this case.
If you can find a reason to sit next to her.
Is church packed? Or do you just not want to sit alone?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7UsEaNiZ Sat 29 Dec 2018 13:59:34 No.7214939 Report

Quoted By: >>7214962

It depends, you need to adress her as a representation of you, if you're dressed in shorts and a t shirt, it would not be as good if you were dressed more smartly. Also you need the personality to back it up and make it look natural and comfortable

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:u94eDwqJ Sat 29 Dec 2018 14:07:29 No.7214961 Report

Quoted By: >>7215100

>>7214576
phase one: take not of who she talks to. she's most likely to first form friendships with the other females. if she starts to get friendly with any woman you're friendly with, she'll think of you as apart of that person's circle and there for trustworth.
phase two: greeting and making conversation, when meeting her just give her your name and ask who she it, no need to go over the top; you have a higher chance of fucking up if you do. for conversation start with basic questions like shit about family, interests, general news and community affairs, you can get to my complex stuff later
phase 3: don't be a soft cock, it's talking to a girl not facing a firing squad.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 14:07:38 No.7214962 Report

Quoted By: >>7214976 >>7215021

>>7214939
Thanks NIGGA. Yeah I'm going to dress up smart-casual for church tomorrow.
>>7214931
>Give her a hug, if you can.
Yeah I am inclnied to do this but I just realised I don't even know if she's over 18 cos she's asian looking and could be anywhere from 16-23.
>Is church packed? Or do you just not want to sit alone?
Not sure what you mean, I sit with my family atm so I don't sit alone. I am planning to talk to her after mass has ended.
Here's my plan of attack:
>Introduce self (no physical contact)
>Talk for a bit
>Find out if she's single
>Find out how old she is
>If she's <18 do 360 and walk away
>If >18, give a hug when I leave.
>t. pinoy bro.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7UsEaNiZ Sat 29 Dec 2018 14:11:46 No.7214976 Report

Quoted By: >>7215100

>>7214962
op i'm begging you not to hug her

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Yf6Zw8Tv Sat 29 Dec 2018 14:25:49 No.7215021 Report

Quoted By: >>7215100

>>7214962
don't hug her that's gonna be super autistic and she might smell your hiki neet scent

or do, just make sure to have a nice greenext for us

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 14:54:16 No.7215100 Report

Quoted By: >>7215236 >>7215239

>>7214961
>phase one: take not of who she talks to
She goes with her mom. After church they light candles and then they leave. They seem relatively new here so they haven't made friends yet, not to mention my church is 80% filipino and she is Chinese so that's part of the reason why she hasn't made friends there yet.
So what, after we exchange names what should be my first topic of conversation? I need to find out how old she is at some point.
>>7214976
>>7215021
>Don't hug her
But a handshake is too formal and sets it up to be a friendship instead of romantic, should I just skip any physical contact on the first meeting in this case?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:EOT2bUkN Sat 29 Dec 2018 15:22:30 No.7215193 Report

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>>7214576
“Hey what’s up?” She says whatever. “Dope [accessory or haircut or whatever].” She says whatever, then you say “see ya.” Do not hug but you can save a handshake, she’ll give you a little limp wrist flop which is a perfect excuse to put your other hand over hers to shake. This also works if you want to throw dudes off when they give you girly handshakes or even overly aggressive ones.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:kaySwgs5 Sat 29 Dec 2018 15:26:45 No.7215207 Report

Quoted By: >>7215236

just be like
ayyyy how u doin I like u and u like me so lets go get some coka colas and talk alittle then wink 5 times in a row

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7UsEaNiZ Sat 29 Dec 2018 15:37:52 No.7215236 Report

Quoted By: >>7215255 >>7215260

>>7215100
minimal contact, what do you know about romance

>>7215207
nigger teir advice

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:msGF2Ijp Sat 29 Dec 2018 15:39:14 No.7215239 Report

Quoted By: >>7215260

>>7215100
No physical contact on the first encounter. I'd be a little creeped out if a stranger gave me a hug!

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:kaySwgs5 Sat 29 Dec 2018 15:46:54 No.7215255 Report

Quoted By: >>7215368

>>7215236
it was a joke
though have u ever had a coke cola in the glass bottle?
do u know how good it taste?

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 15:47:55 No.7215260 Report

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>>7215236
>minimal contact, what do you know about romance
None, that's why I'm trying to make this happen. I'm not a full blown autist though, I'm just bad at conversation with strangers. The conversation always hits a dead-end a few questions in and then I always say "well, I have to go and return some videotapes now, cya" and leave. So, semi-autist, not full autist.
>>7215239
Thanks for the advice

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7UsEaNiZ Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:26:23 No.7215368 Report

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>>7215255
bottled is the only kind around here

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:0bctkrPA Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:33:42 No.7215387 Report

Quoted By: >>7215421

>>7214576
as a rather awkward girl around the same age here is my advice:
>go up to her and say "hey I see you're new here, how are you?"
>if she asks, introduce yourself with your name. then ask for hers.
>ask how she's finding it there
>tell her she and her mam are more than welcome to yours after church some day for a chat or tea
>if it's going that way, a handshake with her (and maybe her mam if she's there) would be appropriate. don't do it like a businessman would. that's just awkward. alternatively, a slight tap on the shoulder as you leave. i'd leave hugs for a more special personal time. keep the physical contact cool for now
>dress in a relaxed, but smart way (jeans and a sorta good shirt/polo shirt. I'm no expert on men's style though)
>stay polite at all times, ESPECIALLY if her mother is there. you want to get approval as a gentleman.
>and most of all, try your best to relax, and if it doesn't work out there's more fish in the sea.
>Good luck - and get back to us if it works out!

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:pOMbSBTo Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:38:15 No.7215409 Report

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>>7214921
based and kikepilled

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:40:14 No.7215421 Report

Quoted By: >>7215428 >>7215517 >>7215834

>>7215387
Thanks for the advice. Tbh you sound 14 so I'm not sure how seriously I can take it.
Anyway
>"if it's going that way, a handshake with her would be appropriate. don't do it like a businessman would"
Wtf does this even mean? I only have 1 handshake, which is a solid non-cuck handshake.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:pOMbSBTo Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:41:28 No.7215428 Report

Quoted By: >>7215451

>>7215421
make sure to vicegrip her hand to assert dominance

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WzNCk9iM Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:47:19 No.7215444 Report

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>>7214576
>mom
are you even real. fuck off nerd

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Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:48:18 No.7215451 Report

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>>7215428
I've unironically been training with these just to impress girl's dads when I give em a handshake.

Nông dân

Nông dân ID:/ije2Vqu Sat 29 Dec 2018 16:54:45 No.7215472 Report

Quoted By: >>7215840

>>7214576
you dont just hug a person you just meet, normally, i usually shake hand, and start the conversation with some typical question as an opening
after that, i start to ask them more question about them, if i sense something other person is particularly fond or like, i will dig in, make them talk (ppl like to talk about them self)
the hardest part is to get their info to contact

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:+S+JZal4 Sat 29 Dec 2018 17:08:58 No.7215517 Report

Quoted By: >>7215840

>>7215421
My point was, be natural. Don't put too much thought behind it. Business handshakes are cold, impersonal and stiff. That's what I was advising against. Just relax and do it and it'll be fine.

And no, I'm not 14 (older dw). Maybe it's the different societal customs here or something that gives that impression (tea, house visits etc) but I would hope my advice isn't out of the ordinary. Good luck!

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:+S+JZal4 Sat 29 Dec 2018 17:12:33 No.7215834 Report

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>>7215421
Oh, before I lose this thought: you're not shaking hands with her to show your dominance, you're doing it to be nice and show you're her equal. Dominant handshakes are what politicians, businessmen and guys trying to prove they aren't idiots to their partner's father do. Not to the partner or potential partner themselves!

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:vP0Yr8lQ Sat 29 Dec 2018 17:14:28 No.7215840 Report

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>>7215472
Thanks Nguyen. You're alright man.
>>7215517
Thanks for the advice. I'm checking out of this thread now, hopefully all goes well and I can have a nice church waifu to write about soon.

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Gib puss

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:e9umEjio Sat 29 Dec 2018 17:19:34 No.7215860 Report

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>>7214576
learn english first

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Anonymous ID:7UsEaNiZ Sat 29 Dec 2018 18:41:24 No.7216158 Report

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if your spaghettfi falls out just speak in Japanese and Naruto run tf away screeching autisticaly, she might have sympsthy and the you use that and use her for da pucci

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:LO0hdOH/ Sat 29 Dec 2018 23:10:45 No.7217939 Report

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>>7214576
usually start with 'hi'

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7BdKda1x Sat 29 Dec 2018 23:31:55 No.7218016 Report

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>>7214576
stahp trying to turn /bant/ into a bunch of incels.
go back to /r9k/ overgrown fagtard

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Anonymous ID:PgjgoumY Sat 29 Dec 2018 23:42:13 No.7218048 Report

Quoted By: >>7218404

>>7214576
In my autism times i greeted women by sieg heiling because i was too scared to say a word
I wish i was kidding

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:qRElMKrs Sun 30 Dec 2018 01:23:28 No.7218397 Report

Quoted By: >>7218400

i wouldnt know i have never met a girl

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:qRElMKrs Sun 30 Dec 2018 01:23:44 No.7218400 Report

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>>7218397

im jk I met one but she spit on me

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:wnTLWnrX Sun 30 Dec 2018 01:24:44 No.7218404 Report

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>>7218048
you didnt have to remind me

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:fuCuFQkR Sun 30 Dec 2018 01:39:21 No.7218454 Report

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>>7214576
>>>/r9k/

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