>>748198I'm saying that men are supposed to be the ones who take the lead in courtship. It is their responsibility to start conversations, make you laugh, entertain you, etc. If you are attractive, you have what they want and it's up to them to put in the effort. Women are the gatekeepers here. You do not need to woo a man, a man woos you. You need to signal to him that you are interested in him, and you need to be pretty blatant and persistent about it because guys tend to be dense so being subtle doesn't work, and guys these days tend to be jaded, so you might need to flirt for a while so he knows you're not just toying with him.
>>748219No, I am not. I am talking about the first stages of starting a relationship: dating. I fully expect that a woman should be able to hold a conversation with a long-term partner, but being able to do that means getting to know the person first. Getting comfortable around them and learning who they are and what they're interested in. This girl can't even get to that point because she's convinced herself that she's supposed to act like a man when she needs to act like a woman.
