Would you rather be ugly with no hope of looking better than a 3 or socially inept to the point of only being able to socialize enough to buy groceries, work a basic job and no hope of getting any better (no 4chan, no social media, no pen pals, no prison letters, etc.)?
Choose.

I'd rather be ugly because at least being charming you still have hope of landing a good job, making lots of money and getting lots of disposable holes with your money or charm.