>>7492173I don't think that is how relationships work as a general rule, but yeah they can be messed up. A friend of mine was dating a girl for two years, then one night lamented that he feels bad knowing he'll never have sex more than once a month for the rest of his life (if he stays with her). Then later he confided that she said he HAD to get a career that could match her own earning potential if they want to stay together. He was an aspiring actor and she was planning for law school.