>>7600935I'll make this same thread when I am 25 most likely. 20 now, and well on my way to the same fate. The issue isn't speaking to girls for me, it's speaking to girls even mildly platonically that's the issue. Last time I did that (I tried to ask her out), it took me 24 hours to mentally prepare with a blood pressure over 130 and physical symptoms of anxiety, and when I finally went for it, I backtracked halfway through by saying: "nevermind, nevermind."
I really really hate myself when it comes to these kinds of things.
What have you tried so far?