Some of you may know or remember me. I'm the Brit fren/anon who has been dating a girl for many months, but there have been downsides of it which I have talked about it here.
Well, yesterday I told her I think it's not working out (I put 90% effort she puts 10% max), so now we're meeting to talk about it/us on Saturday.
I said to her, if she's serious about it or wants to make it work, we have to talk Saturday.
Every Saturday she says she has no time, but when I gave her this ultimatum, she accepted.
Perhaps this shows she realised I'm not going to chase & be available forever, and that I'm serious about moving on if I don't see anything happening.