>>7715615Well, finding a girl to hug is quite easy. But finding a girl to hug that is pleasant to be around is harder. The more you require, the smaller your talent pool will be and the harder you'll make it for yourself. I'm not saying have no standards, I'm just saying, maybe don't expect one girl to satisfy all your needs. Many people require things from their girlfriend that should be fulfilled by their friends and this is why they find it so hard