>>777531Agreed, I am not a Chad by any standards, not ugly either, just average skinnyfat male, 23 years old now, but I have actually got many dates from dating sites, and non-virgin, had 2 gf's in the past, currently single for 5 years now but largely because I haven't seriously focused on getting a gf as I am more focused on building up a career and such.
That aside, I can tell that dating sites are good if you believe in this one night stand meme, but you can't really find much quality women there. Best advice for good waifu material is to try and meet some girl from real life. Try any sorts of events, clubs or places that at least party align with your interests.
Also, people seriously underestimate how important is to make male friends and have them suggest a sister or some single female friends to you. Other man can be surprisingly generous with those suggestions when they trust you enough and when they themselves are not romantically interested in that woman.