What if ralsei was pressured so much into becoming a girl because of all the people who thought he was a girl that he decides that he wants to have a surgery done to change his gender? And what if he asked you to help him for the fubds of the surgery? Would you help him out? And if so, would you still be proud of ralsei for their choices to change? Personally, i think that ralsei would still be as nice as ever, even if he did have a different gender or something. So long as he was still fluffy and lovable.