>>794518Hey op if you're still around here's my chunk of advice.
You claim to be a Christian, right? You do understand that in order for us to be forgiven we must first forgive?
It really isn't up to you to judge, lest thee not be judged. You have to understand we live in the world were Satan controls it and the culture is against the commandments of God. As sad as it is woman who do not keep virginity until marriage is a very high percentage of the female population. The culture was created so that it is this way, so that women get worshiped and for them to find someone to fuck them is almost as easy for a lonely man to find pornography. Both which are sins and were once looked down upon and now are encouraged.
That being said although unacceptable it is understandable. The real question is, how much does she regret it? What were the circumstances back then? Was she a believer? How much does she love God? How honest is her relationship with Him? If Yahushua ("Jesus" real name) forgave a prostitute, who are you to not forgive her? The key in that passage wasn't only the forgiveness, it was the part in which he said "sin no more" will she give up adultery and fornication?
If so far you are following me, speak to her and tell her you need to think and need a break from the relationship because her virginity is a big deal to you. See how she reacts, see how sorry she is. If she response is muh body muh choice then she has understood not much about Yahushua and His redeeming quality. If she is sorry and not sorry because of God but because she might loose you (as a possible ticket out of poverty) then she isn't scared about God, she's scared about self.
I hope my message is clear, only a God fearing woman can be a believers wife. This is what you must test, if she has repented of her sins you must forgive her. If you pray you must ask for your heart to acknowledge how sincere is hers. If it isn't then do not continue.
Best of luck
