>>7957772Hm. Caring is a two-way street, you have to put effort in to receive effort back. That's not how it works from the spectator seat. If you're wishing for someone to care about you that means you care about yourself, which is a good thing, that's a healthy attitude to have. But on the flipside if you're truly in the spectator seat and you don't care about yourself, only then are you free to enjoy the people around you without expecting anything in return