Look at it through a lens of understanding and do the best you can with your own life.
>Mexico
Do something about your klepto government and the cartels. The wall will build the political pressure your lot will need, since all of those malnourished, shanty-shack fucks will have to "Make Mexico Great Again" instead of just coming here.
In America, the mob use to act a lot like the cartels. If someone pissed them off, they'd kill them and their entire family. They've learned since then that doing that in America is a poor idea, as even the most hobbled old woman is capable of getting a gun and ending your life, often with the cops just writing it off as another instance of gang-related violence.