>>8282318>part of your mind that gives you urges or impulses is out of your controlwith alcohol for example you can control your stimuli which would mean not going to a place where people are drinking or watching movies involving drinking in order to avoid triggering an urge or impulse in the first place which is itself a conscious decision
if i didn't have the internet i probably wouldn't jerk off either because the exposure to anything that makes me think about it would be gone too
maybe you don't have absolute control of what you feel or want but you can make conscious decisions to avoid them in advance
