[spoiler:lit]The secret is that there is no secret. You can't get the girl if she isn't interested in you. It's always the woman that decides if she is interested. In that case she will signal to you non-verbally that she is open to be asked. That's when you can make the move and ask her out. All these dating tips are just a bad joke to make you insecure and take money from you. The only thing you can do is to make yourself attractive and girls will jump in your arms. It only works one way, that's the secret.[/spoiler:lit]