>>8451633I'ts a very good place to start from. You are being honest with yourself. Remember - you can't control other people, the only thing you can control (and even this is misleading, it's more like "harness") is you. In my experience it's much more a physical thing - how healthy you are, how good is your posture, how well you breathe rather than what people usually attribute it to (status, money, power, education etc, but these things help too).
