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Anonymous ID:rmy5W9CI Wed 31 Jul 2019 05:04:55 No.8468400 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>8468422 >>8468446 >>8468571 >>8468573 >>8468615 >>8468655 >>8468656 >>8468718 >>8468742

Anyone on /bant/ ever been (or currently) suicidal? How does one cope? Hitting a mess in my life and not sure what my thoughts are anymore.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:L6A4ehHe Wed 31 Jul 2019 05:11:37 No.8468413 Report

Quoted By: >>8468433 >>8468894

outlive the feeling

in my personal experience its about surviving how you feel long enough for you to process what got you that way. there's no point asking specifically how you got here because the real problem is that you're here now and now the real fight will just be the day to day life while you heal

in my opinion, just take some huge liberties with how you treat yourself. you want a beer? just have the beer. want to go to a park and just sit there for a while? just do it.

be kind to yourself, and more importantly, even if its nearly impossible, is find things you're grateful for.

gratitude for the small things, happy experiences you've had, nice things you've experienced. you should take a moment to reflect on them and appreciate the things in life that make you happy, even a little bit.

Normie !Big.GaevU6

Normie !Big.GaevU6 ID:qR/EErcP Wed 31 Jul 2019 05:15:08 No.8468422 Report

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>>8468400
No cope no hope just the rope. Everything until that is you just prolonging the inevitable.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:VG/NDmw4 Wed 31 Jul 2019 05:15:44 No.8468424 Report

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Coping is easy, solutions are difficult. I would say that suicide is not a solution inasmuch as it is the ultimate cope. IE its not solving problems on the level of the problems, or opening up new insights and interpretations about them, but it is eliminating the possibility of and insight or reinterpretation entirely.
What thoughts are leading you down that path? Personal suffering/ hopelessness/ shame in the eyes of others?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:L6A4ehHe Wed 31 Jul 2019 05:21:42 No.8468433 Report

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>>8468413
on a completely unrelated note i respect people who've genuinely considered taking their own life.

it means something probably mattered to them more than their own life which to me is the truest measure of genuine humanity there is

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:IwDAiSqL Wed 31 Jul 2019 05:29:12 No.8468446 Report

Quoted By: >>8468894

>>8468400
Hang on tight. If you're feeling emotional,
find some shit to distract yourself with.
cytube, netflix, video games, etc.
(4chan obviously is a bad example)

Make small improvements to your life.
Little by little,
until you reach a point where you can at least say,
"Things could be worse".

Then keep going. Keep improving.
Spoil yourself with shit you don't need.
One day find uses for those things.

Also, and I can't stress this enough,
see a psychiatrist, and get on medication.
Tell him/her you are depressed.
Don't tell them that you are suicidal,
unless you're ready to spend a week mental hospital.

some Sp*n*sh subhuman

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some Sp*n*sh subhuman ID:ljTeVZXl Wed 31 Jul 2019 06:52:52 No.8468555 Report

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Yes. I used to be suicidal when I had a enormous depression. I had extremely low self-esteem. I wasn't being able to find myself, to know what I wannna do, and I had been recently discovered that the world was much shittier than I though. And as addition, a close familiar who I loved so much died by cancer.

That was the only time I actually considered suicide seriously. Fortunately, I had professional gelp and I was able to find myself and developmed mor self-appreciation. That helped a lot.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:uW1DeOhU Wed 31 Jul 2019 06:56:43 No.8468562 Report

Quoted By: >>8468655

ive only felt like i wanna kill myself when i was a teenager
now its just no matter what happens to me i cant feel depressed or suicidal
just know its a chemical imbalance on your brain and dont feel that way.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:iWTbnKjZ Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:00:38 No.8468571 Report

Quoted By: >>8468600 >>8468656

>>8468400
>Anyone on /bant/ ever been (or currently) suicidal?
It was at its worse earlier this year
>How does one cope?
Making small progress and being kind to myself helped. What you tell yourself makes a difference

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:jSlNEtrB Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:02:32 No.8468573 Report

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>>8468400
I would like to vent but I realizeall I do is go in circles and then end up where I left off Talking about my problems never actually motivates me to solve my problems my life has just been one giant failure and I want it to end

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Zlojmy/E Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:08:38 No.8468588 Report

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I'm not allowed to be suicidal by government mandate

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dtd5i94N Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:13:29 No.8468600 Report

Quoted By: >>8468620

>>8468571
you're a wonderful person and I hope you never feel like that again
are you doing alright currently?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:OM0NSfL6 Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:18:38 No.8468615 Report

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>>8468400
Well for starters I've been looking into partial suspension hanging. Specifically with a doorknob and a rope and just leaning down and going unconscious forever.
I often wonder, what's the point of living if we are all going to die in the end. No one will remember us and we will not remember anything. The world doesn't need me, it's going to shit anyway. Why not just end it here and now and save myself the future pain?

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:iWTbnKjZ Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:20:48 No.8468620 Report

Quoted By: >>8468647

>>8468600
Thanks. I'm doing better especially since realising that there is a way out

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dtd5i94N Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:25:14 No.8468647 Report

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>>8468620
good I'm very happy to hear that, and by way out I assume you mean something positive and not dark

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:TY6DYMeU Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:26:27 No.8468655 Report

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>>8468400
>>8468562
>ive only felt like i wanna kill myself when i was a teenager
>now its just no matter what happens to me i cant feel depressed or suicidal
>just know its a chemical imbalance on your brain and dont feel that way.
This.

I hope you feel better OP

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:tfXRWZEm Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:26:27 No.8468656 Report

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>>8468400
I once thought about ending it all because I was going to become homeless. Ended up not going through with it, thankfully. Lived on the streets for about 2 weeks before finding a shelter and eventually an apartment a few months after that. It was the hardest thing to do during that time, waking up and facing the world instead of necking myself. This advice is great: >>8468571
Know that you matter.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:gb6PhOXN Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:28:07 No.8468660 Report

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die am*rican dog bleed BLEEEEED

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:YZBGTKjl Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:28:42 No.8468664 Report

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I got used to them and just kept on trucking, feels nice to know that if shit hits the fan there is always a way out.

aglibol !!mOnUuNLWl66

aglibol !!mOnUuNLWl66 ID:Uyfnw+2z Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:29:09 No.8468665 Report

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how can you cope even! not possible. it's over.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:iWTbnKjZ Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:37:51 No.8468687 Report

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>>8468647
Of course. Suicide was an option because it seemed like there was no other option

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dtd5i94N Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:51:20 No.8468715 Report

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>>8468687
you're my favorite I'd be really sad if you were gone

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:XMlWhrlS Wed 31 Jul 2019 07:52:37 No.8468718 Report

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>>8468400
was suicidal. smoked my first joint about 8 months ago and havent felt worse since

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:MFsA6YL3 Wed 31 Jul 2019 08:02:24 No.8468742 Report

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>>8468400
>How does one cope?

You either kill yourself and get it over and done with, or you figure out how to be content with your strife and be all the tougher for it.

Being happy doesn't mean that everything in your life is going fine; it means that you're fine with the things that aren't.

ブラジル人 !!xnogW6fU7Df

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ブラジル人 !!xnogW6fU7Df ID:ew1YgDS8 Wed 31 Jul 2019 08:20:11 No.8468790 Report

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I've been feeling less suicidal since start taking clozapine.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:K6c7DyIg Wed 31 Jul 2019 09:50:05 No.8468894 Report

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>>8468413
feels good man
>>8468446
Distracting yourself just makes healing take longer, eventually you have to reach the heart of whats bothering you, at least in my experience.

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