Hey bant bros, I'm feeling pretty low right now and I could use some guidance and direction.

What are some things I can do to become comfortable with myself and boost my self-esteem? I want to get to the point in my life where I love myself, and regardless of my circumstances I'm happy with myself.

I got a haircut today and it ended up being pretty shitty. I have a receding hairline and the haircut emphasizes it. How pathetic is that? Part of my happiness / self-esteem was attributed to something as arbitrary as hair. How do I get to the point in my life where I am comfortable with my looks/myself.

I don't have many hobbies honestly. It's not that I'm not willing to try any, it's just I haven't found any that I love to do.

I hit the gym regularly and I am in great shape, I don't think I'm terribly ugly but I would be much better looking with confidence.