Even if you feel cheated or deprived in some aspect of your life, you cant let that effect other aspects. You cant indulge in self pity, rumination, coping/addiction activities at the expense of hygeine, sleep, work/school obligations. This is not for the sake of other people, but for yourself, for your baseline dignity and happiness. Some things must be done. Whether you are a nihilist or a christian, some tasks just need to be completed, even if they seem grueling or tasteless. Like wiping your ass. Would you ever take a slimy shit and then pensively question the utility of wiping your ass? No you just wipe, so you dont leave the bathroom with the indignity and nuisance of a shit smeared ass crack. You wouldnt leave your ass unwiped just because you dont have a healthy social life. This analogy must be extended upward throigh more complex tasks. Even if you dont reach a lofty goal eventually, youll at least have a tolerable baseline.

>inb4 i have a bidet
suck my balls