(33M) have been with my wife (31F) for 8 years & married for 3. I’ve noticed a pattern of women in this subreddit talking about how their husbands reject them but still watch and masturbate to porn but I haven’t seen many men talk about this, I think I might be in the minority of men here who is also experiencing this. We haven’t had sex in 6 months and in the last couple years have only had sex a total of 3 times yet she continues to watch porn on an almost daily basis and masturbate / use toys on herself. I still try to initiate on a regular basis (at least 2-3 times a week) but I just get rejected every time. I can see the internet history and she regularly watches porn the same days she rejects me for ‘feeling too tired’ or ‘not being in the mood’. Also when we do have sex it’s extremely conservative, she only wants to do it in missionary, no giving or receiving oral, barley any kissing or touching yet the porn she watches is on the way more hardcore side (anal, gangbangs, facials etc.) I’ve tried questioning her about this kind of stuff she watches and she says she would never want to do anything of that in real life and it’s harmless if she’s only watching it. Any other men here currently dealing with their wife choosing to watch porn over sex?