>>8757489Absolutely, what most fags on 4chan need to learn above all else is patience. Rome wasn’t built in a day.
>>8757495That’s the rub though, sometimes people need to get sense slapped into them instead of being coddled so they’ll stop feeling sorry for themselves, stop making excuses to not even try helping themselves - and I’m not talking “I’ll try talking to this cute girl once and then completely give everything up when it doesn’t go as well as I hoped, but I get to say I tried without telling others the shallowness of my ‘attempt’.”.
They’ll feel like absolute shit as they should, but they’ll get those hard facts into their skulls and change themselves for the better. Or commit self-kill.
And if they choose to kill themselves after a life cooped up inside their room instead of:
going outside your comfort zone
>fact: staying inside all day feeling sorry for yourself or keeping entirely to yourself in a social environment doesn't ever change shit - nobody is EVER gonna notice you, swoop in, and save you; you’re not that special or important.swallowing your anxiety before talking to people
>fact: if you explain that you don’t have social skills but you’re working on improving yourself, most people will be understanding and happy to support you. And if they’re dicks about it instead then fuck’em, there are other people to talk to.doing fun activities with other people and learning new things and gaining new experiences
>fact: you’re boring because you haven’t ever tried expanding your horizons because you don’t ever want to leave your safe space.then they were truly worthless and the world is better off without them.
Insensitive? Yes. The world doesn’t give a shit about their feelings.
Oh, but there’ll be no “le animaymay paradise” waiting for them; Don’t buy “le reroll my character” meme either, that’s a cheap copout.
It doesn’t work like that at all.
That is all I have to say.
