I don’t need to go outside to understand how much of an incel I am.
I basically only leave the house for necessities; groceries, hardware store, gym. I’m 6’ 1”, but due to being about 145lbs most of my life, wearing glasses, and Norwood 6 by 24 I as totally ignored throughout my sexually formative years. I was pretty nerdy in high school but got along fine with male friends. I’m not autistic or anything, but the near total lack of contact with women has left me developmental challenges. There’s seriously no better term for it. The social skills for interacting with women were never needed (because the situation just never presented itself) and therefor I never really learned them.
Now I’m the same height but 180lbs and very lean (my estimate from other pics is 11% body fat). Squat, bench, and ohp are 285, 225, and 125 (that’s 5x5, not single rep calculator nonsense). I paid for lasik and braces when I was 29 (did I mention I had crooked teeth and we were too poor for braces?). I live in the city and make $70k a year. I’m not NBA rich, but I’m pretty sure most people my age don’t make that much. None of it matters; even if a girl approached me I wouldn’t know what to do. I wouldn’t even be able to tell what her intentions are. The other day someone at the gym asked if she could work in. Later I wondered if maybe she had been interested; I couldn’t tell.
tl;dr Incels don’t have a stereotype except for their past failures, which ruin us for life.
