Did I try hard enough to get you to say yes or no to me? If I did, then I tried plenty hard. If I didn't try hard enough to get to you to say yes or no to me, then I didn't try hard enough. However, if I did get you to the point where you had to say either yes or no, then I tried hard enough. I am not trying to sell myself to you like I'm some piece of junk at Circuit City. I'm trying to find out whether or not you'd like to go out with me.