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Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 20:52:13 No.9249446 View View Reply Original Report

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How do you choose with whom to fraternize at work?

I work at a small company (20+ people) and there’s only 1-2 other guys I can speak freely with. Any time I try to really talk to a girl who works here I usually regret it and wish I hadn’t said anything

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 20:54:27 No.9249447 Report

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>>9249446
I work at a small company too. When people aren't busy they are on their phones. Most browse social media and text, I browse /pol/.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 20:55:16 No.9249448 Report

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>>9249446
>Talking to women
What are you DOING. Ignore her

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Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 20:55:56 No.9249449 Report

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>>9249446
I just operate off the assumption everyone around me is a braindead fucktard and am pleasantly surprised when I find someone who isn't.

Can't be disappointed when you aren't expecting anything.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 20:58:17 No.9249450 Report

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>>9249447
same here didn't see my employer for 2 years and i work alone also spend most of the time here

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Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:00:17 No.9249451 Report

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>>9249448
There are literally 3 people in the room I work with (one is girl) and I’m stuck here for 8 hours. It gets boring if you don’t talk anon..

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:05:36 No.9249452 Report

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>>9249451
Then you definitely need to ignore her. She'll start to wonder if she really exists then will be willing to interact on your terms. You're a man at work you shouldn't need to talk to anyone

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:13:01 No.9249453 Report

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>>9249446
>talking about anything other than getting work done at work
My work social life is fine, as long as everyone realize that the only reason I'm talking to them is because they gave me a problem to solve and I need more information.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:13:46 No.9249454 Report

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n words

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:15:22 No.9249455 Report

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>>9249451
what do you talk about? why do you end up regretting it?

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Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:18:42 No.9249456 Report

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>>9249446
Pictured: OP's and anons' ITT ride
Kys incel faggot

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Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:27:35 No.9249457 Report

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>>9249455
Basic work-friendly topics: ‘what’d you do over the weekend?’. I’d say the regret seeps in because I’m treating them the way I would a male friend, in a genuine way- but it almost always falls short when talking to female coworkers.

>>9249456
Very original and thought provoking comment mexibro. Now go return the computer you stole and get back to work cleaning dishes

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:28:50 No.9249458 Report

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I don't. I just work.
I'm not ugly, so the retards think I'm serious and mysterious.
Be very direct with them, they're like dogs, untrained dogs.
Trained dogs bark when they need to and told to, not when they feel like it.
Fucking human waste.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:36:42 No.9249459 Report

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>>9249451
talk to god instead.

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Anonymous Mon 16 Dec 2019 21:49:13 No.9249460 Report

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>work in fintech in silicon valley
>too red pilled to fit in
>too chad to care
>too good to get fired
>go to fin; no tech
>same cuckoldry around me but I have the same attitude
>make frens and network
>started talking to at asian girl on other team
>2 coffee dates so far
>considering having an affair on my qt asian wife at home
>this is my life and idgaf

I just talk to everybody. Keep it on the surface, and don't discuss deeper topics like politics, religion, guns or abortion. From there, see who you have common interests with. If you want to have sex with them, try to see if they want to have coffee and develop a deeper bond. If you can do them a solid professionally, it may be a more tactical decision to friendzone yourself and retain them as a reference in your network so that you can always move up. I hope this is advice was helpful to you, Anon.

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Anonymous ID:OtGvY0WG Mon 16 Dec 2019 22:41:50 No.9249596 Report

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>>9249446
Autistic meme. Gay shit like that makes me want to end my consciousness.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:nNpOhRpL Tue 17 Dec 2019 02:43:13 No.9250173 Report

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>>9249446
Based and tedpilled

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